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July 24, 2008

WHY SETTLE FOR LESS THAN PERFECTION WHEN IT COMES TO SEDUCING WOMEN?

When it comes to success with women for some guys, they tend to just be perfectly happy when they are able to get phone numbers from women in the 6 to 7 range of hotness factor and then they tend to brag about this success like they just won the lottery.

But if you really want to improve the standards of women that you envision you would love to be with, you must begin to elevate the ways in which you start approaching and interacting with women, 24 hours a day.

Start looking at the types of women you have had success with and start assessing their physical beauty with a new, non-jaundiced vision of them. Are these girls so beautiful that Brad Pitt would be proud to be with them? Or is there something wrong with each and every one of them?

You can begin writing down the perfect attributes you would really love to find in just one woman and then you can start going out every night and seek a woman that fits this perfect vision for yourself.

Maybe you are the person you have to work on before you can reach the lofty goal of having incredibly beautiful women just begging for you to come over and please them. Are you still uncomfortable around attractive women? Then start working on relieving most of your approach anxiety.

Are you having trouble even finding where the beautiful women are in your small town? Take an entire week off and just start driving to new area where there may be a new mall or a new huge bookstore where you can find newer and totally hot women there, instead of staying in your more confined, smaller area of town.

ARE YOU USING EVERY SKILL IN YOUR SEDUCTION ARSENAL?

Another human fallacy is the fact that when you are getting sexual pleasure from a few women here and there, you become too overly satisfied with your lot in life. Unless these women totally satisfy your every sexual desire, you really should be looking for ways to use your newly honed seduction skills to bring the most beautiful and sexually driven females to your home every week.

And don’t think you are being too greedy in your desire to create a harem such as the one found at the Playboy mansion. You are just being true to your own innate desires and you should not feel guilty about those desires at all.

Your only true guilt should come from your inability to use all of your seduction skills to bring you the myriad different forms that a true seducer will enjoy.

If you love this article, you can find many more just as exciting in all of my seduction categories on this website. And be sure to look for my book, “Mastering the Art of Attraction”, coming soon.




July 23, 2008

GET OUT OF YOUR OWN HEAD AND YOU WILL ELIMINATE APPROACH ANXIETY

One thing that experience in the seduction game has taught me is to just accept who I am without worrying too much about it. Does that sound like a poor attitude to you? Well, it shouldn’t because you should accept yourself as who you are as well.

That does not mean you should not try to improve yourself on a daily basis. Quite the contrary. You should ALWAYS be trying to improve your positive traits and get rid of your negative traits, but constantly having thoughts in your head that you are not worthy of having a hot girl be interested in you will ensure that your approach anxiety will never go away.

If you can act more confident, more self-assured and take the lead during every conversation with a woman, your biggest fears of failure will eventually leave you like petals falling off of a daffodil. A leader has to take the lead at every turn, but if you are always questioning yourself you will never lead a woman anywhere.

When one of your approaches doesn’t go well there is a tendency to question yourself about why. But sometimes there’s nothing to learn and you can’t question yourself that much. You need to just move on. You need to chalk up the failure as just another step toward your goal to becoming successful with women.

The best way to get out of your own head is by trusting your own instincts at some point. But to get to that level you have to practice approaching women every day. You can then look at what you did right and what you did wrong and improve on those elements of your own individual game.

CLEARLY DEFINE THE MISTAKES YOU MAKE ON EVERY BAD APPROACH

Did you say something too aggressively sexual with that last girl? Did you use poor body language when you first approached her? Did you notice if the girl was already in a bad mood to begin with when you first spoke to her?

By asking yourself these types of specific questions, you are eliminating your approach anxiety by reassuring yourself not to take everything so personal if the girl was not the slightest bit interested in having any interaction with you.

But if you are so much into your own head that you cannot understand what went wrong with a few bad approaches you have done in the past, you are doomed to outright failure in your desire to become a great master seducer of women.

After a while in this seduction game your instincts with women will become much sharper and focused while at the same time you will be in a much more calmer “head space” than you are right now.

Until the day comes in which your natural instincts with women are very assured and fluid, you have to recognize that you will have good approaches with girls and you will have bad ones.

But constantly beating yourself over the head by keeping those negative images of the less successful approaches won’t do you any good at all. Focus on increasing your positive traits with women from now on and your approach anxiety will fall to the wayside very soon.

Keep reading all of these posts in the “Eliminating Approach Anxiety” category of this website so that you can eradicate AA once and for all.


July 22, 2008

HOW TO TAKE YOUR OUTER GAME TO NEW LEVELS WITH HOT WOMEN

If you are a guy who has no idea how to attract women using a strong sense of fashion that is congruent with who you are as a person, this article is being written just for you.

It is very important to convey great body language to women on a daily basis, but it is also very important to make certain that women know what you are talking about when it comes to presenting a great self-image to every woman you will be interacting with.

The best way to access what type of clothing styles will best represent your own unique personality is by analyzing what your personality is to begin with.

Let’s start out by writing down five things about your personality that you happen to like about yourself. If you are outgoing, write that word down. If you are mostly shy, write that down. If you are into Goth metal or rap, write down whichever style of music you like.

After writing those words down, start visualizing the type of clothes that you can see yourself wearing in a club you like. Write down the style that comes to mind.

After that, start visualizing the type of more casual clothes you would like to see yourself wearing if you were at a mall or a coffee shop where there are a ton of hot babes walking around.

You should have at least three types of shirts and three types of pants/shorts written down that best suit your personal style by now. Also think about the style of wristband/rings/bracelets you have thought about purchasing. Write down those styles as well.

After you have a much better view of what looks good on you and what you feel comfortable in, write down a realistic budget of what you can spend on clothes for the next year. You should not run right out and purchase every bit of clothing you can get your hands on.

TIME TO DRESS FOR SUCCESS

You really need to buy the bare essentials right now, such as a shirt and a decent pair of dress pants and some shorts that look good on you. Then you can take your time with other shirts and accessories for a later purchase date.

When you take your time putting together your new look, you will also be making sure that women respond to this new look in a positive way, with more eye contact being made in your direction and more smiles from them.

Your new style should also be very comfortable in your mind and on your physical body as well. Make sure your confidence level has increased because of these new clothes and make sure they are congruent with your overall personality and they don’t give off a negative vibe to women.

Remember that new clothes are only an extension of your personality, not a replacement for your old self. These clothes need to say to women: “Look at me now. I am not the shy guy I once was. I have style and I am now the prize, so what can you do for me?”

In the coming weeks, I will be writing more articles on how to get rid of sloppy appearances that men continually have as well as writing specifically about how to find stores that will feature the types of clothing that will help your overall outer game grow by leaps and bounds.

Read all of my seduction articles on “Outer Game” as well as many other seduction topics on this site from now on, in the daily blog and in the "article categories" page.

These articles will really help your seduction game tenfold, and make sure you read my book, “Mastering the Art of Attraction” that will be coming out soon.


July 21, 2008

SOME THINGS TO AVOID UPON YOUR FIRST APPROACH

You should NEVER even have the slightest desire to be friends with an extremely hot girl. Although some guys like to use a hot girl at a club to attract other women to them, most women do not like to be used as a pawn in a pickup artist's arsenal unless she's bi or has a curiosity about other women.

It's much better to focus on being more direct when you first approach a girl. That way you stay out of the "friend zone" immediately and there is no danger of this girl being too comfortable with being in your presence.

Bringing up the matter of her having a boyfriend or not within your first approach is not something I would recommend to anyone, but I'm always interested in seeing how new openers work or not, so you might as well experiment around.

The next time you see this girl I would be more direct with her but not ask her for a date or anything like that. I would just indicate what the exact thing is about her that I like the most and then escalate sexual tension immediately.

Forget about an actual date- just focus on getting some SOA’s (Signals of Attraction) from her and then proceed from there.

The best way to get a girl to give you signs that she is interested in you is by either being direct with your first approach and telling her you like something she is wearing or by stating the fact you find her hot as hell and you would like to get to know her better.

After making those statements, look at her reaction: Does she play with her hair? Does she move her body towards you and lean in to hear what you are saying to her?

These are all SOA's and you can calibrate your future conversation with her by focusing on the parts of your conversation that have been most useful in giving you the most SOA's from her.

DON’T GIVE UP ON A GIRL- JUST CHANGE THE TOPIC WHEN THINGS SLOW DOWN

On the other hand, if the girl is resistant to your first opener, you have to end that part of your opening conversation and start on another entirely different line that WILL give you much better SOA’s during the initial opening phase.

One of the biggest things you must avoid doing at all costs is sticking with a conversation that you know is going nowhere, yet you continue to spew your boring talk to her without changing the topic when you should have.

I will be elaborating any many more areas of the approach in this category because I feel it is so damn crucial to really get a successful seduction game down in the first place.

Be sure to come back to this website at least three times a week to view all of my new articles on the subject of the approach and all the other seduction techniques I will be writing about in the future.

July 20, 2008

DEVELOP GREAT EYE CONTACT FOR EXCELLENT OUTER GAME

When you first look at a hot woman from a distance or up close, you usually will start your glance looking at her face and then moving your eyes slowly down her body. If that is in fact what you are doing to her, what do you think a girl who is attracted to you is doing with her eyes?

That’s right- she is doing the same thing if she actually is interested in your outer looks. When a girl is only seeing you on the surface, all you have going for you initially is your great outer game, so make sure you are using strong body language and have a sense of fashion style wherever you happen to go on your daily activities.

You need to start looking at women immediately and analyze where their eyes are going to on your body if the happen to be looking in your direction. Are they scanning your body vertically? If so, that’s a great SOA (Sign of Attraction).

And if that is the case, by all means do NOT break eye contact with her. Instead, look straight back at her with the same type of gaze she is giving you. Then smile at her and wave her over to you ASAP.

A HORIZONTAL EYE SCAN IS WHAT TO LOOK FOR!

Now that you’ve got the girl’s attention, you must engage her in an interesting conversation after using one of my great openers, depending on where you are, such as a coffee shop or a nightclub.

Once you have started engaging her, you must look for this great sign that she is wanting to know you much better: the horizontal eye scan. This will be easy for you to detect because the girl will look once at your right eye, then she will look at your left eye.

This type of eye scan is conducted by women when they have found the guy they are talking to incredibly captivating. You should definitely try to escalate the sexual tension with the girl when you see her eyes moving back and forth because this means she is ready for more serious romantic interactions with you.

I would immediately lean in for a kiss without asking her if you can or not, then I would back off like I thought better of it. What you are doing here is teasing her to a very high level, thus increasing the sexual tension to the utmost heights.

To cap this off, having strong eye contact with women means a lot more than just never breaking contact with her first. It also means learning the ability to read a girl’s mind by watching her eye contact with you as well.

Read all of my seduction articles on “Outer Game” as well as many other seduction topics on this site from now on, in the daily blog and in the "article categories" page. These articles will really help your seduction game tenfold, and make sure you read my book, “Mastering the Art of Attraction” that will be coming out soon.

July 19, 2008

DON’T EVER HESITATE WHEN YOU SEE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN

The next time you see an attractive woman giving you strong eye contact, just say the first thing that pops into your head, I don't give a damn what it is, just say it! Don't hang on to the outcome of your statement to her, what ever you do.

If she comes back with something positive, continue your interaction with her. If she says something negative, say "OK- see you later."

To hesitate for even five seconds can put you on the defensive when you do try to talk to her again after letting more than those five precious seconds elapse. You absolutely have to start analyzing extremely quick ways to open a girl immediately if you want to succeed at this art form.

Start focusing on coming up with a personal opener to her using a unique thing she is wearing as a main topic instead of just saying hi to a girl.

When you are at school, for instance and you see she is studying intensely, say something like "Better watch out. Looks like you're gonna burn a hole in that text book the way your staring at those pages!"

She will at least smile at you and then you can go from there. If a hot girl is just walking by you on her way to a next class, you can use a time frame line such as "I know you're on your way to class, but I had to tell you I really like those shades you're wearing. Where'd you get them?"

This gives you another minute or two to quickly escalate the conversation with her and get an e-mail address out of her. Having only a few minutes to talk to a girl really benefits you because you don't have enough time to screw up your opener and the girl will find you more mysterious.

BE QUICK OR BE DEAD

Since she barely knows you at all and you left a good impression on her she will want to get to know you better at a later date when you do actually e-mail her. That’s another great thing about not waiting around too long when you first spot a hot girl. The fact that the quicker you are when you open a woman, the better chances are you will not blow your chances with her by saying something stupid to her.

When you already have a good deal of openers to say to women upon any occasion at all, you will be in a great position when you happen to run into an attractive girl, no matter what type of environment you are in. So if that’s the case, what are you waiting for?

Most guys do in fact wait until she gives them a sign that she wants to be approached before uttering a single remark. But, guess what? A woman will only give you an SOA (Sign of Attraction) when you have demonstrated to her that you deserve her attraction to you, either by what you’re wearing or the kind of attention you are getting from other women.

If you are waiting for an SOA from every damn woman you see on the street, you are going to be waiting for a loooonnnnggggg time, because most of the time you see a hot woman, you will not be in any condition to establish POW (Proof of Worthiness) to her in just five seconds. So do the smart thing: TALK-LISTEN-TALK SOME MORE!!



July 18, 2008

THE REAL REASON “CANNED LINES” NEVER WORK ON WOMEN

Some guys feel that when they learn “canned lines” from pick-up websites on a woman, these lines should work like a charm no matter the way in which the guys uses them. They could not be more wrong about this if they tried.

When you use any bad opener from anybody, the way in which you say the opener to a girl makes all the difference in the world. For instance, if a guy has absolutely no self-confidence and barely squeaks out any canned opener, he is doomed to failure.

When he tells a girl, “I would just love to get to know a hot girl like you much better in a more intimate place than this bar”, while using poor body language that expresses to the woman that he is a downtrodden man without any redeeming qualities, every woman he will ever tell that opener to will shoot him down in flames.

Is that because the opener is totally cheesy and over-used in every bar in America? While that is partly true, the reason it will not work on most women is because of the WAY the man said it, not in the phrase itself.

If this same line was used on a woman at a noisy bar in which the man strolled up to her dressed in a nice shirt and slacks, with a very confident stride and a sly smile on his face let loose with that same opener and delivered it using strong vocal patterns, most women would respond positively to him.

STRONG BODY LANGUAGE IS KEY TO EXHIBITING SELF-CONFIDENCE

Even if you are not sure about the exact opener you should be using on a woman that is standing right in front of you, as long as you have already shown her strong self-confidence exuding from you by using strong body language and deep voice tones, you are already half-way there on your way to a successful phone number close or kiss close.

If you are using lines that you honestly are feeling at the moment of that first interaction with a girl, she will sense your honesty exuding from you and she will respond to almost anything you say to her with positive feelings. Women have a much more innate ability to figure out exactly what a guy’s intentions are before you even open your mouth.

Another big issue concerning using canned pick-up lines and routines that do not expressly show her your own strong personality is the fact that these lines have absolutely nothing to do with the environment and circumstances that you and the girl you are approaching happen to be in.

For instance, if a girl is at the mall and she is window-shopping for a tight dress that is displayed at a store called “Cinnamon Girl”, would you use an opener such as “I’ve never seen such a beautiful girl in a mall like this. Where are you from?”

That opener makes no sense to her reality because why would she be in a crappy mall as compared to a really nice, modern mall that you will probably be seeing a lot of hot women in? Also, when you talk crap about a place that she is already in, you are really saying that she has no taste when it comes to shopping. Also, by using this generic opener, you are not using her window-shopping as something unique only to her.

PICK YOUR OPENERS VERY CAREFULLY

A good opener to use on this girl that is staring into this store window would be: “I see you have a really good sense of fashion when it comes to picking out skirts for yourself. I really like the one you have on, but the one in the window is the right amount of flash that suits your personality much better.”

Remember that great openers are only as good as the man saying them, and you will much better off than when you were using canned lines from other “Pick-Up Gurus” before you started creating great inner game for yourself.

July 17, 2008

A GREAT DAILY AFFIRMATION FOR YOUR INNER GAME

Every guy needs to start detaching themselves from their outcomes with women no matter if they go good or bad. By repeating this next affirmation every day, you will be able to just enjoy your interactions with women and eradicate the bad thoughts and feelings from your approaches almost immediately.

1. Repeat this thought out loud while looking in the mirror: I will have a great time with every girl I meet no matter what happens at the conclusion of our time together. I will congratulate myself over the good parts of my interaction and discard the bad parts of my interaction after determining the best way to correct what I did wrong.
2. The next time you begin your approach with a hot girl, just concentrate on having a good time with her and enjoy the way she looks, smells and her interesting speech patterns. This will allow you to experience your interaction with her almost like an “out of body” experience.
3. Think about the enjoyment you are getting out of the ability to just be able to go up to a complete stranger and starting a nice conversation about nothing. When you actually believe that you have improved your social life just by opening yourself up to other people, you will see that no matter what happens during your conversation that you are already the best person you can possibly be. No matter what the outcome is.

The real reason why detaching yourself from the outcome of your interactions with women is perfect for building up a strong inner game is because you are no longer concerned with every single interaction with a woman anymore.

No, your main focus from this time on is just taking the positive things you did in an interaction and ramping up and honing those things you did and implementing them in all of your future interactions.

BECOME A GREAT SELF-ANALYSIS EXPERT TODAY

At the same time, you will now be able to focus on the negative aspects of what you did wrong with an unsuccessful interaction and can now eliminate them by looking at them in a way a scientist would and analyze what you did wrong with an unemotional eye.

For instance, if you walked up to a hot girl two days ago and said something like: “I could not help but notice that your jeans must have been imported from France,” but the girl said “You could not be more wrong. I just bought these at the Gap. Are you mental or something?” you can now laugh it off but still analyze what you did wrong with her very easily.

The fact that you stated to her that you just knew that those jeans were imported from France made you seem like an idiot because she bought them in America. And then after hearing her response, you just hung your head in shame and walked away without saying another word.

Even though she gave you a smart-ass reply, a lot of guys could have used that as a way to respond right back to her with this ballsy/witty line: “I know I’m not mental, but if you think I can be scared off by a girl with a loud mouth like yours, you are sadly mistaken!”

Do you now see how you cannot let a smart-ass girl shoot you down without at least giving her some of her own medicine back? And now you can see how you must analyze what you did wrong with a girl in a much more analytic manner than ever before, which will really help your seduction game by leaps and bounds.

Read all of my seduction articles on “Outer Game” as well as many other seduction topics on this site from now on, in the daily blog and in the "article categories" page. These articles will really help your seduction game tenfold, and make sure you read my book, “Mastering the Art of Attraction” that will be coming out soon.

July 16, 2008

DON’T LET A WOMAN FLAKE ON YOU…EVER!

Some of the main problems in building a strong seduction game when you have first started to collect phone numbers and e-mail addresses from hot women is the fact that a lot of girls fail to show up at the location you told them to meet you at.

Even when you told her that the “get-together” would just be casual and you two could just have a coffee and find out if you were compatible with each other, the girls always seem to have something that comes up in their lives that they just cannot get out of.

Does this sound familiar to you? If it does, you really need to understand this advanced seduction technique that is perfect for you. Tell every girl from now on that you will not tolerate a flake in your life. That’s it. Tell her this very forcefully, with not backing down whatsoever.

Some seduction artists tell you to just hint at the girl that you don’t abide by flaky people and let it go at that. But what I’m telling you is to be much more direct and demanding than that. Ask her how many times she has flaked out on someone, regardless if it was a guy she liked or just a friend.

If she says something like. “Well, I have flaked on a few people lately, but I really didn’t want to hang out with them very much anyway,” you are in trouble with her.

You should just give her one chance to prove herself wrong if she has already admitted to you that she does flake on people on a regular basis, regardless of her excuses for doing so. And you can tell her than in so many words.

Say to her, “I know that you are trying to not flake on me, but tell me right now that you really want to show up at the coffee shop we decided on so I’ll know for sure that you will be there. I have a lot of things going on this week and I cannot afford to waste my time with a flake.”

If she is not really a flake, she will tell you so. But if she sounds even a little bit wishy-washy about committing herself to your little casual meeting, how do you think she’s gonna act when you want to come over for sex? That’s right. She will even flake more on that idea, so forget about her and move on.

DO YOU ATTRACT FLAKY CHICKS IN YOUR LIFE?

A lot of guys are under the assumption that ALL women are flakes. This is not true. It’s just that some guys act and behave a certain way around women that turn the girls into flakes. The worst thing a guy can do is to tolerate bratty behavior around girls that totally turn them on.

Guys become little boy around girls that they are attracted to and willingly let hot girls get away with not answering his e-mail or hanging up on him when he was not through talking to the girl he is attracted to.

Do not become one of these types of guys. Never let a girl run all over you, not at the start of your interactions with her and not during the middle part either.

If you find that most girls you are meeting lately turn into flakes after a few days of knowing them, it is YOU that are causing this behavior by allowing this behavior to occur in the first place.

Remember to look outside yourself and start analyzing your behavior patterns with women in an objective manner and you will start attracting and interacting with the women of your dreams, instead of the brats of your nightmares.

Read all of my seduction articles on “Advance Seduction Techniques” as well as many other seduction topics on this site from now on, in the daily blog and in the "article categories" page.

These articles will really help your seduction game tenfold, and make sure you read my book, “Mastering the Art of Attraction” that will be coming out soon.


July 15, 2008

MAKE THE GIRL WORK TO CHASE YOU!

Approach anxiety can come in many shapes and forms but the worst shape it can possible take on you is the one in which you fear saying anything to a woman, no matter where you happen to be.

The reason you have this fear is because of her innate beauty and your inability to see that you are just as important on this planet as she is, regardless of what she looks like. If you can feel this way during every approach with a hot woman, your approach anxiety will not takes its toll on you any longer.

It’s always smart to remember when you first start approaching a really hot girl that YOU are the prize always- not her! Ask a hot girl during the approach/escalation what type of girl is she: “What do you do outside of work that you find creative?”
“Do you paint or design clothes for fun?” (This makes her work for you and she is now qualifying herself to you if she does neither.)

“Have you read any good books or seen any great movies lately?” This is not just a “fluff” type of question, she really MUST have read something or seen some good movies, otherwise she is not worth YOUR time and she has failed your “Qualifying Test” that you have already personalized to fit in with your lifestyle/personality.

Make the GIRL work for you- NOT the other way around! This will also decrease approach anxiety drastically. If she does tell you that she saw some good movies, and then goes on to describe them in detail, for instance, reward her with moving your body towards her more than when you started off at a “sideways stance”, which you MUST begin with on your first approach on her.

REWARD HER GOOD BEHAVIOR WITH GENUINE COMPLIMENTS

To have a deep conversation with her, you need to always dig deeper into her own personality, her intelligence level and her finer attributes, not just her damn good looks. NEVER just reward her for making “surface remarks” that sound good.

Reward her with smiles, kino, body adjustment when she makes in-depth remarks about factual and interesting subject matter that you have already brought up based on what kind of hobbies you are interested in yourself.

What this does is removes any supplicating or “needy” behavior patterns from any conversation that is going well. While you are getting deeper into the conversation, you MUST reward her good behavior with lowering your voice to deeper and sexier tones, put you arm on her arm, gaze lightly down at her breasts, give her compliments on her hair, legs, etc.

On the other extreme, if she is NOT giving you good feedback during your conversation with her, withhold all kino, compliments, etc., until she recovers and starts being an interesting person again. Above all do NOT start agreeing with everything she says, such as liking a movie she likes even when you hated it. Tell her why you think the movie, book, band, etc., sucked and never agree with her over mundane issues either.

Approach anxiety is a real killer when it comes to elevating your seduction game to new and higher levels. Read all of my articles in this category to eradicate yourself of AA today.